What are the best safety tips for meeting buyers/sellers on Marketplace?

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01.03.2024
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SolarFlare Topic author

02.01.2025 19:23

I've been using Facebook Marketplace to sell some furniture and electronics, but I keep running into issues with people who try to scam me or who just don't show up. I'm worried about meeting strangers, especially for larger items. Should I always insist on meeting in a public place, or is that impractical for furniture? Also, what is the safest way to handle payment? Should I only accept cash, or is PayPal safer if I'm dealing with out-of-state buyers? Any advice on spotting a potential scammer would be greatly appreciated.

19 Answers

13.11.2022
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LogiPro

11.01.2025 00:52

Always meet in a well-lit, public area. For furniture, if the buyer insists on a private viewing, bring a friend and take photos of the location beforehand. Never let them corner you.

31.07.2024
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Nick_V

24.01.2025 12:44

Cash is king, but only if you are in person. If you are dealing with out-of-state buyers, PayPal is okay, but use the 'Goods and Services' option, not 'Friends and Family,' and be prepared for fees.

03.04.2024
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Hancock_G

10.03.2025 13:14

Meet at a coffee shop or a local police station parking lot. It's neutral ground and there are witnesses. Don't go to their home or yours.

23.12.2022
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NovaStrike

19.03.2025 03:16

Never give out your personal address until the sale is finalized and payment is secured. Keep communication on the platform until you are ready to move to a phone call.

05.09.2023
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Aunt_C

01.05.2025 00:18

Short and sweet: Trust your gut. If something feels off, it probably is. Walk away.

11.09.2024
Posts: 1161

LightningX

27.06.2025 10:52

I strongly advise against accepting checks or money orders. These are the easiest ways to get scammed because they often bounce days later. Stick to cash or instant digital payment.

21.05.2024
Posts: 142

SolarKnight

08.07.2025 22:11

For large items, consider meeting at a friend's house or a community center that allows pickups. It gives you more control over the environment and visibility.

16.02.2025
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Master_C in response

26.08.2025 01:25

Do you think meeting at a police station lot is too far out of the way? I worry about the buyer getting annoyed if it's not convenient for them.

20.06.2022
Posts: 176

Tennessee_C

27.08.2025 10:08

If they are pressuring you to skip the public meeting spot or demanding immediate payment via unusual methods, run. That is a massive red flag.

23.06.2024
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LightningX

31.08.2025 05:56

I once dealt with someone who insisted on paying with a check, but it was clearly fake. I walked away immediately and reported the account. Never feel obligated to complete a sale.

19.10.2022
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Cole_C in response

03.09.2025 01:43

I agree with the public spot idea. And always bring a friend! Having a witness is the best safety net you can have. It makes everyone more accountable.

18.05.2023
Posts: 152

NovaStrike

28.09.2025 01:09

Always confirm the item details and the price *before* you meet. If they change their mind or the price midway through, it's a sign of trouble.

20.08.2023
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ConsolePeasant

28.09.2025 07:37

The best payment method is cash, and you should count the money *with* them right there. If they are hesitant about counting, walk away.

21.03.2023
Posts: 343

NeonGhost

01.10.2025 10:19

If you are selling electronics, consider meeting at a local carrier store (like a phone store) if appropriate, as they are high-traffic and secure.

07.10.2022
Posts: 55

Danse_B in response

20.10.2025 07:59

I think the police station idea is actually great because it's impartial and highly visible. Convenience shouldn't outweigh safety, period.

18.08.2022
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Colleague_C

21.11.2025 15:51

Always bring a fully charged phone and keep it visible. If you feel threatened, use it to call 911 or a friend immediately.

09.03.2024
Posts: 866

Friend_C

22.12.2025 14:47

For out-of-state buyers, PayPal is manageable, but only if you verify their identity through a separate channel, like a quick phone call to the number listed on the profile.

19.02.2025
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GhostProtocol in response

30.12.2025 06:36

What about scams involving 'overpayment'? They send too much money and ask you to refund the difference? I've heard stories about that.

28.07.2023
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Dillon_C in response

15.03.2026 00:32

If they try the overpayment scam, do not engage. It is always a scam. If the money is too good to be true, it is a scam. Keep it simple: cash or secure digital payment.

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